Thursday, December 23, 2010

Perspective: The Christmas Scandal

Merry Christmas from the Wayside!


The Christmas Scandal

Scripture:

For He grew up before Him like a young plant,
and like a root out of dry ground;
He had no form or majesty that we should look at Him,
nothing in His appearance that we should desire Him.
He was despised and rejected by others;
a man of suffering and acquainted with infirmity;
and as one from whom others hide their faces
He was despised, and we held Him of no account.

Surely He has borne our infirmities
and carried our diseases;
yet we accounted Him stricken,
struck down by God, and afflicted.
But He was wounded for our transgressions,
crushed for our iniquities;
upon Him was the punishment that made us whole,
and by His bruises we are healed.

Isaiah 53:2-5 (NRSV)


He came down to earth from heaven
Who is God and Lord of all
And His shelter was a stable
And His cradle was a stall
With the poor, the scorned, the lowly
Lived on earth our Savior holy

From "Once in Royal David's City" by Cecil Frances Alexander


An evangelical university in my town has set up a very elaborate nativity scene at the main entrance to the campus. At night, the entire scene is illuminated for all passersby to see. Nativity scenes are familiar sights at Christmas: a glowing infant Jesus lying in a manger surrounded by the Virgin Mary, Joseph, some shepherds, and three elderly wise men, all looking very serene and pious. Some nativity scenes even include a few well-behaved animals. As familiar and iconic as this scene is, I am beginning to wonder if it really captures the true nature of the Christmas story.

The story begins when a young teenager named Mary is visited by an angel. This angel, Gabriel, tells her that she will soon give birth to a child. This child would not be just any child: this child would one day be the King of Israel and would even be called the "Son of God." This would be surprising news for any woman, more so for a woman like Mary who hadn't even lost her virginity. The news was not only surprising but also troubling. Mary was not yet married, so what would the townspeople think? What would her fiance Joseph think? Would anyone even believe her story?

People in town begin to gossip. Mary's story isn't very convincing: "I'm pregnant, but I'm still a virgin. Oh, by the way, the baby is God's." Nobody in his right mind would believe a story like that, so there are only two logical explanations. Either Mary and her fiance have been fooling around, or Mary had been unfaithful. Word reaches her fiance Joseph. Obviously, he knows that the baby is not his, so that leaves only one conclusion: Mary has cheated on him. Naturally, he decides to break off the engagement. Even though Joseph is disappointed, hurt, and angry, he is kind-natured, so he decides to handle things discreetly to spare Mary what little dignity she had left.1

Just after Joseph had made up his mind about breaking his engagement to Mary, an angel appears to him in a dream and tells him that Mary has not been unfaithful to him and that the baby is indeed from God. Joseph wakes up and decides not to break the engagement. Of course this is going to make Joseph look bad as well. By not breaking the engagement, he is basically confirming to the townspeople that he and Mary have conceived a baby out of wedlock, something that is a lot less acceptable in their culture than it is in ours. Mary and Joseph know the truth, but, to everyone else, they are just another young couple who couldn't control themselves and messed up.

To complicate matters, the government decides to take a census, requiring that all people go to their ancestors' hometowns to register. This means that Mary and Joseph have to travel all the way to Bethlehem because they are descendants of King David. When they arrive, Mary goes into labor. Unfortunately, the two cannot find anyone who will take them in, so they end up having the baby in a stable - a dirty, smelly cave - like a couple of teenage runaways. With no bed for the baby, they lay Him in a feeding trough.

If things weren't bad enough, a bunch of anxious shepherds show up to see the baby. In our heads we have a lot of warm, fuzzy images of shepherds, but, at that time, shepherds were notorious for being thieves and were considered among the scum of the earth.2 Shepherds would be the last people that Mary and Joseph wanted to see, especially at that time.

I imagine that the mental portrait I am painting of the Christmas story is far different from the peaceful, pious nativity scenes we usually see. Nativity scenes typically make the story seem much more dignified, when, in reality, it was a holy mess. The young couple are usually depicted so serene and prayerful, but with all the conflicting emotions - the excitement of having a baby, the joy of doing God's will, the frustrations of lives turned upside-down and reputations ruined, and the panic of having everything to go wrong in one evening - who knows what the two were really feeling at the time? A passerby would most likely look on this scene, see the child, and think, "That kid doesn't have a chance." God did not pick a very auspicious way to bring His Son, our Savior, into the world.

Things did not get much better afterward. This child Jesus grew up to become a rabbi - a poor, homeless rabbi. He and his friends would travel the region, completely dependent on the grace of God and on the hospitality of others. He would associate with prostitutes, tax-collectors, beggars, and other disreputable types. Jesus repeatedly ticked off the religious authorities. Eventually He was put on trial, executed in a public spectacle, and buried in a borrowed grave.

The people of Israel had waited generations for a messiah to show up and set things right. This messiah was supposed to be a great political leader, a heroic warrior king who would liberate the Israelites from their Roman oppressors. The person called Jesus was nothing like the messiah that everyone had imagined. Instead, He was the exact opposite: he was born under sketchy circumstances and lived his life at the bottom rungs of the societal ladder.

So why did God choose for things to be this way? Why did Christ have to be born under such questionable circumstances? Why did God have to drag Mary and Joseph's names through the mud? Could He not have been born to married parents? Could he not have been the great warrior king everyone was expecting, or could he not have been more reputable rabbi? Could He not have brought salvation to humanity without being executed like a common criminal?

I believe that the Christmas story, like the entire life of Christ, should affect how we look at each and every person on this planet. The Christmas story is scandalous because God's love is scandalous. God loves unwed mothers, teenage runaways, and young couples who mess up their lives. God loves people who have bad reputations and people who live on the other side of the tracks. God loves embezzlers, prostitutes, sex offenders, people with substance-abuse problems, and even inmates on death row. God loves the unlovable and the people on whom society has already given up. The Christmas story reminds us of this scandalous love.

Regarding acts of kindness, Christ once said, "I assure you that when you have done it for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of Mine, you have done it for Me."3 There is something very literal about what He said because, in many ways, Jesus was the "least of these." The Christmas story reminds us that God invited "the least of these" into the story of our salvation. It reminds us that God even placed His own Son, sometimes called Emmanuel meaning "God with us," to live among them.

I hope that as we celebrate Christmas in the next few days, we will see the Christmas story for what it really is: not just a story of a baby born in a stable but a story of God's scandalous love and a story of God identifying with us. I hope that this story affects how we look at other people as we worship the one who was both fully God and fully human, the one who was both the least of these and the greatest of these.


Notes:
1 - Rulebreaker: A Christmas Story. 2010 Wayfarer. Master Teacher Guide p. 12
2 - McKinley, Seay, and Holder. Advent Conspiracy. 2009 Zondervan. p. 41-42
3 - Matthew 25:40 (CEB)


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Friday, December 10, 2010

Perspective: Is Hatred Ever Right?

Developed from part of a Sunday School lesson delivered at Bethel United Methodist Church on November 28, 2010.1
I share these thoughts, hoping they are of help to someone else.


Is Hatred Ever Right?

Scripture:

Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my thoughts.
See if there is any wicked way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.

Psalm 139:23-24 (NRSV)


Heal my heart and make it clean
Open up my eyes to the things unseen
Show me how to love like You have loved me
Break my heart for what breaks Yours
Everything I am for Your Kingdom's cause
As I walk from Earth into Eternity

From "Hosanna" by Brooke Frasier


Recently the Bible study book used by my Sunday School class featured lessons about the Psalms. At first I was not too enthusiastic about this. After all, how was I supposed to teach a whole Sunday School lesson about a Psalm? A lesson about a Bible story? I can handle that. A lesson about the teachings of Jesus? Definitely! A lesson about parables? Those are my favorite! A lesson about a Psalm? No way! Psalms are usually self-explanatory, so what is there to explain or discuss? What would I do with Psalm 100, for example? "Make a joyful noise to the LORD, all the earth." Should I discuss the importance of singing?

I came to find out that teaching about a Psalm is not too different from teaching about anything else. As always, the Bible study book gave me a good starting point; God helped me to prepare the rest of the lesson; and the discussion questions took up most of the class time.

Recently, I was blessed with the opportunity to deliver a lesson about Psalm 139. Written by King David, this particular Psalm contains a number of well-known and beloved Bible verses and passages about God's close, personal involvement with humanity.

The psalmist begins with some words about God's perfect knowledge of each of us:
O LORD, You have searched me and known me.
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
You discern my thoughts from far away.
You search out my path and my lying down,
and are acquainted with all my ways.
(verses 1-3)

The psalmist then continues with thoughts regarding God's constant presence with us:
Where can I go from Your Spirit?
Or where can I flee from Your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, You are there;
if I make my bed in Sheol2, You are there.
If I take the wings of the morning
and settle at the farthest limits of the sea,
even there Your hand shall lead me,
and Your right hand shall hold me fast.
(Verses 7-10)

The psalmist then praises God for the thought and care that He put into our creation:
For it was You who formed my inward parts;
You knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are Your works;
that I know very well.
(Verse 13-14)

Toward the end, though, David decides to go off on a tangent, and the Psalm takes on a much darker tone:
O that You would kill the wicked, O God,
and that the bloodthirsty would depart from me -
those who speak of You maliciously,
and lift themselves up against You for evil!
Do I not hate those who hate You, O Lord?
And do I not loathe those who rise up against You?
I hate them with perfect hatred;
I count them my enemies.
(Verses 19-22)

And this was such a beautiful Psalm! Why did David have to go and ruin it with all that stuff about killing and hatred? There are verses that I honestly wish were not included in the Bible, and these are four of them. The author of our Bible study book must have felt the same way, as she decided not to cover this part of the Psalm in the lesson. As I prepared to deliver this lesson, I decided that it was necessary to wrestle with these verses as well.

So what are we supposed to learn from this part of the Psalm? Are we supposed to have the same attitude as the psalmist? Are believers supposed to hate the people who reject God and choose not to follow His ways? Are we supposed to pray for the deaths of those who do evil?

We all know that there are people who share David's sentiment. Without giving any names, there is one "church" in particular that is notorious for its members' hatred. The members of this church infamously travel the country protesting at the funerals of those they consider sinful. They brandish spiteful words on mockingly colorful signs and sing hateful songs, adding to the pain of those who are grieving. They admit to rejoicing when people die because they view it as God's righteous judgment on the wicked. They use Bible verses like the ones above to justify their beliefs and their actions.

There is something very dangerous about basing one's entire belief system on a handful of Bible verses. The passage above, like all Bible passages, must be read while taking the rest of Scripture in consideration. If we do so, I believe that we will see that the hatred that David expresses is not what God wants for us.

One of my favorite stories in the Bible is the story of Jonah. God sends the prophet Jonah to the city of Nineveh to warn the Assyrians of their coming destruction. The Assyrians were a very cruel people, and they were the hated enemy of Israel. Jonah himself had advised the king of Israel in his campaign against them. Jonah hated the Assyrians, so he was initially reluctant to go to Nineveh. With a little prodding from God and a whale, he finally does go. When the Assyrians repent of their ways, Jonah becomes angry that God decides to spare them from destruction. God has to remind Jonah that the Assyrians too are His creations whom He loves.3

The same God whom David is worshiping with this Psalm is the same God who sent Jonah to minister to the Assyrians.

I believe that the teachings and actions of Jesus Christ also have a lot to say about love and hatred. In the Sermon on the Mount, Christ said, "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven..."4 Christ said that for us to be children of God, we are to love not only our neighbors but also those who are our enemies. When Christ was executed on the cross, He followed His own command, praying, "Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing."5 Christ prayed for the forgiveness of those who were treating Him so cruelly and unjustly.

The same God for whom David wrote the Psalm loved us enough to die for us "while we were still sinners."6

Taking such acts of God into consideration, it is evident that God does not want us to hate those who reject Him but to love them. We should not pray for the deaths of evildoers, but we should pray that they come to repentance.

I would like to propose that this part of Psalm 139, in which David boasts perfect hatred for the enemies of God, is not an example of the correct attitude to have or the correct theology to affirm. Instead, I believe that it is an honest admission of David's spirituality at the time. I have come to believe that some of the Psalms are examples of honest prayers. When we pray we should be completely honest, with God and with ourselves, about what is really on our minds and in our hearts. Sometimes this means admitting ugly things like "God, I am angry with you," or "God, I really hate this person."

David finishes this Psalm with a request:
Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my thoughts.
See if there is any wicked way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.
(Verses 23-24)

David follows up his admission of hatred for the enemies of God with an appeal to God to search his heart for evil and to lead him. Though David is totally devoted to God, he knows that he is not perfect and that he is dependent on God's grace. He knows that he needs for God to purge the evil from his heart and to lead him in the "way everlasting," the way of righteousness. David is asking for what is sometimes called God's sanctifying or transforming grace.

Though I initially felt that David ruined an otherwise beautiful Psalm with his talk of hatred and death, his closing request brings a beautiful sense of irony to the Psalm. If David is truly earnest about God searching his heart, if David truly wants to be transformed by God, he must let go of the perfect hatred that he boasts for the enemies of God. This would mean learning the lesson that God sought to teach Jonah. This would mean sharing the love for God's enemies that Christ showed when He gave His life on the cross.

No matter where we are on our spiritual journeys, each of us needs for God to come into our hearts, to heal our brokenness, and to transform us into the people He created us to be. We need to follow David's example, not in his admitted hatred, but in his honesty in prayer and in his willingness to be transformed and led by God.


Notes:
1 - The basis of my Sunday School lesson was:
Carol J. Miller. "God Is All-Knowing", Adult Bible Studies Fall 2010. Cokesbury.
All referenced verses from Psalm 139 are taken from the New Revised Standard Version.
2 - Death. Hell is used in some versions.
3 - Book of Jonah
4 - Matthew 5:43-45a (NRSV)
5 - Luke 23:34 (NRSV)
6 - Romans 5:8



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